Thursday, April 29, 2010

Does gender have any difference when it comes to employment?

Yes, it does.
Gender has many dimensions that impacts on employment, specifically when it comes to females. This justify differential treatment of males and females in the workplace where indicated.
Then again women have reproductive roles that requires a degree of sensitivity in the employment relationship whereas males are sometimes in the same boat. So, it depends on the circumstances of the specific employee to determine the specific gender implications for the workplace.
My outlook is that males should get up, most women are multi skilled as a result of their reproductive role that requires them to multi task and as such the worth of the female employee will soon be rated much higher than that of males.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

We are afraid of the wrong things

We grow through being wrong, we stand still through always being right. If you want to be right all the time, go live underground… it’s not gonna be possible even there. You will find however that no one is there to see you become “humiliated.” The next time it comes to your attention that you have been wrong, don’t hide from it. Look them squarely in the face and say: “Thank you, I want to know when I am wrong so I can be better.”

Being wrong is not the worst thing in the world, being afraid of it might be. Think about what you lose when you are wrong. Is it so valuable that you would give up your sense of peace and well-being over it?Come on, were human beings. Everyone makes mistakes and we learn from them.We are bound to go through these wrong doing, its natural and therefore holding yourself back wont help,We are all not innocent.

I'ts all about respect "mchana"

Having respect for others is difficult if you have no respect for yourself. you earn respect if you respect yourself and the ones around you .
One needs to pay attention when people disrespect you, and act on it. A person with self respect doesn't tolerate others to treat them badly, and would rather not associate with someone who is disrespectful. “that’s me” I cant tolerate such behaviours’, people who think that your life revolves around them.
This might seem obvious, but there are many times when we accept being treated badly (in both big and small ways) because we believe the person doesn't know any better, or because we're not prepared to let that person go, or because we're too down on ourselves to believe we deserve better. When someone doesn't give you basic respect, you need to be able to say, in one way or another, "You just disrespected me and that's not acceptable to me. If you don't respect me, I won't spend time with you anymore." Can you say that, and mean it? Can you turn your back on someone who's clearly shown that they don't respect you? Once you do, you'll feel your sense of self-respect and you level of confidence would accelerate, trust me.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

We are what we do.

Our future is determined by our behaviour, what we do. Same as the past. The past made me to be who I am today. Its all about the choices that we make as “HUMAN BEINGS” in our daily life. We can learn from history how past generations thought and acted, how they responded to the demands of their time and how they solved their problems. We can learn by analogy, not by example, for our circumstances will always be different than theirs were.

The main thing history can teach us is that human actions have consequences and that certain choices, once made, cannot be undone. They shut out the possibility of making other choices and thus they determine future events.if your dream is to be a president,the study of politics and the positiveness detarmines your career same as to any field one has acquired.It can be a negetive or a positive action that one takes. People percieve us based on our behaviour, how we do things and how we respond to certain issues or things.

I am what i do